What to expect

Understanding the Work

What is sexological bodywork?

Sexological bodywork is a somatic practice that helps you reconnect with your body, explore pleasure, and release shame. It combines coaching, breathwork, mindful touch, and embodiment exercises—all tailored to what you want to explore.

Unlike traditional therapy (which is talk-based) or massage (which is relaxation-focused), sexological bodywork is about learning to feel more in your body, understanding your desires, and reclaiming pleasure as something natural and shame-free.

How is this different from massage or therapy?

Massage is about relaxation and releasing physical tension—it's done to you.

Sex therapy is talk-based counseling about sexual issues—it happens in conversation.

Sexological bodywork is embodied and experiential. It's about learning through your body—exploring sensation, practicing new ways of relating to pleasure, and releasing shame through somatic practices, not just talking about it.

Is this sexual?

Sessions can include sexual touch and exploration, but only if that's what you want and we've agreed on it together. Many sessions are not explicitly sexual—they might focus on breathwork, sensation mapping, or simply learning to feel safe and present in your body.

The focus is always on your experience, your learning, and your pleasure—not mine. This is not about performance or pleasing me. It's about you reconnecting with yourself.

Who do you work with?

I work with people of all genders, sexual orientations, bodies, and abilities. My clients include:

• People exploring their sexuality for the first time

• Those recovering from shame, trauma, or negative sexual experiences

• Individuals wanting to learn mindful self-pleasure

• Couples deepening their intimacy

• Disabled clients seeking accessible, body-positive support

• Anyone curious about embodiment and somatic practices

You don't need any experience or "qualifications"—just curiosity and a willingness to explore.

Before Your Session

How much does it cost?

Sexological bodywork: £150 per 3-hour session | £50 per additional hour

Two-way touch sessions: £150 per 3-hour session | £50 per additional hour

Self-pleasure coaching: £100 per 2-hour session | £50 per additional hour

I have a 24-hour cancellation policy.

If money is a concern: Please get in touch anyway. I don't do this work to make money. While I believe my rates are reasonable, I don't want cost to become a barrier to your empowerment and liberation.

Where do sessions take place?

I see clients at my dedicated flat in central London, in Marylebone. The nearest station is Bond Street; Oxford Circus and Baker Street are also within walking distance.

The flat is on the second floor with no lift, which may affect accessibility for some people.

I'm also happy to consider alternative arrangements, including seeing clients in their own homes.

Are sessions in-person or online?

I normally work in-person, as touch is a central part of what I do.

Online sessions may be an option in certain cases, depending on the nature of the work you're interested in.

Do you work with couples?

Yes — and my rate remains the same.

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During Your Session

What should I expect in a session?

All sessions are co-created with you, designed to provide a safe and open space for whatever sparks your curiosity.

Opening conversation (talk-based): We begin by discussing what brings you to the session, clarifying your intention, and collaboratively deciding on the focus and direction. This ensures we're aligned on what you want to explore.

Exploration and practice (embodied work): The main part of the session puts your intention into practice. This can include somatic therapy, body-based coaching, breathwork, and touch-oriented exercises designed to explore specific issues.

Radical acceptance, non-judgment, and ongoing consent are foundational. While the openness of this process may take some getting used to, it's a powerful part of the work itself.

Reflection and integration (talk-based): The final part of the session is for reflection. We digest and integrate the experience, considering insights or new awareness gained. This helps you begin to internalize the learning from our work.

A process of growth

This work often initiates a longer-term journey of growth and self-reflection, where learning unfolds over time. We practice engaging mindfully with this process, helping you stay connected and open to ongoing exploration beyond each session.

Common Questions

Will I have to be naked, or touched?

No.

You will not "have to" do absolutely anything, ever. What happens in our sessions is entirely up to you, discussed and consensually agreed upon.

Depending on the sort of work we agree to do — and subject to your (and my) limits, comfort level, and ongoing consent — you may choose to be naked (totally or partially) for part of your session, or you may ask to be touched. But these are merely possibilities available to you that we can consider together.

Will you be naked? Can I touch you?

In Sexological Bodywork sessions, I will not be naked. These sessions are focused on you — your relationship to your body, your pleasure — and so touch is generally one-way only.

However, if you would like our work together to involve two-way touch or my nudity, we can explore this outside of the Sexological Bodywork framework, in two-way-touch sessions.

The key is always that whatever we explore together will remain client-led, consensual, and — above all — intentional.

What sort of touch can I ask for?

You may ask for our session to include any sort of touch — in fact, you are encouraged to explicitly ask for all that you want!

Depending on the sort of work we agree to do, and subject to our limits, comfort level, and ongoing consent, I may or may not agree to what you asked for.

Touch could be to any body parts we agreed upon, and it could be aimed at exploring emotional reactions, shame, pleasure, etc. It could be external or internal (including genital or anal).

The most important thing, in all cases, is that touch must be intentional ("why are we doing this?") and within the context of an explicit consensual agreement.

Is this confidential?

Yes, totally (of course!).

Is this right for me?

If you're curious about reconnecting with your body, exploring pleasure without shame, or learning something new about yourself, then yes—this might be for you.

You don't need to have everything figured out. You don't need to be "good at" anything. You just need to be willing to explore, ask questions, and see what feels true for you.

If you're not sure, get in touch and we can talk about what you're hoping for. I offer a free 30-minute discovery call to help you feel comfortable and clear before we meet.

Still have questions?

Get in touch — and we can talk about anything else, answer any questions, or address any concerns.

I offer a free 30 minutes discovery call to help you feel comfortable and clear before we meet.