Ethics and professional standards

This work is built on trust.

Whether we’re talking, exploring through touch, or sharing an intimate experience, I want you to feel able to arrive as you are: curious, uncertain, excited, nervous, experienced or completely new to this work.

Everything we do together is grounded in a few simple principles.

Consent

Consent is an ongoing conversation.

Nothing happens without your explicit agreement, and you’re free to pause, change direction or stop at any point, for any reason. You never need to justify a boundary or explain a “no”.

Collaboration

There is no script to follow.

Every session is created together, responding to your intentions, your curiosity and your experience in the moment. I won’t tell you who you should become or what you ought to discover. My role is to create a space where you can experiment, practise and discover through experience what feels meaningful for you.

Respect

I work with people of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship styles, ages, bodies and levels of experience.

You don’t need to fit a particular identity, body type or idea of sexuality to work with me. You only need curiosity and a willingness to explore.

Confidentiality

What you share with me stays with me.

Your privacy is fundamental to this work. Everything we discuss or experience together is treated confidentially.

Professional standards

I’m a member of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB) and the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS), and I work in accordance with their professional codes of ethics.

I am a member of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB) and of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS).

Code of Ethics of the Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers (ACSB)

Code of Ethics of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS)

Not all of my work takes place within the professional framework described on this page. If you’re interested in a different kind of relational encounter, you may wish to read about shared intimacy. Although the intention is different, the values of consent, communication and mutual respect remain the same.