Shared intimacy

A different intention

Shared intimacy offers a space to share consensual, embodied intimacy for its own sake, rather than as part of a therapeutic or educational process.

Much of the work described elsewhere on this website begins with a curiosity to explore, practise or experience something differently — and we create a space where that can happen together. Sometimes, though, that’s simply not why people come to see me.

Sometimes they don’t come because they want to work on something. They don’t want to learn a new skill or understand themselves better. They simply want to spend time with another person. To be held. To talk. To kiss. To have sex. To relax. To enjoy themselves.

This is what these sessions are for.

The sexological bodywork sessions and the other interactive and relational practices described elsewhere on this website can also be deeply intimate. They may involve nudity, touch, arousal, masturbation or other forms of erotic exploration. The difference isn’t the acts themselves. It’s why we’re there. In those sessions, every experience is held within a shared intention to explore and learn through it. Here, we’re simply sharing the experience itself.

That doesn’t mean nothing happens. Quite the opposite. People are often surprised by how meaningful these encounters become. Sometimes they leave feeling more relaxed, more alive, more connected to themselves or to another person. Sometimes they discover something unexpected.

But we don’t begin with those goals.

We begin by meeting each other where we are, and by creating together the kind of experience that feels right for us both.

Although these sessions are not therapeutic, they are still grounded in the same values of consent, communication, mutual respect and ongoing choice that underpin all of my work. We create the experience together, and either of us can slow down, change direction or stop at any point.

What might a session look like?

Every session is different because every meeting is different. We might spend time talking, sharing a meal, going for a walk, cuddling on the sofa, giving and receiving massage, exploring sensual touch, kissing, sharing erotic intimacy, exploring kink, bringing sexual fantasies to life, or simply relaxing together. There is no script. We decide together what feels right, moment by moment.

The setting

Sessions usually take place in my private flat in Marylebone. It is a quiet, comfortable and discreet environment, prepared specifically for our time together, where we can relax without interruption and allow the experience to unfold at its own pace.

Practicalities

• Sessions take place in my private central London (Marylebone) space or, by arrangement, elsewhere.

• They are intended for adults of all genders, sexualities and relationship structures.

• Sessions are available from two hours to several days.

• Prices start at 150 pounds per hour, reduced rates available for overnight and longer bookings.

• A deposit is required to confirm your booking.

• We will discuss boundaries, expectations and practical arrangements before we meet.

As with all of my work, these sessions are grounded in consent, communication, embodied awareness, mutual respect and ongoing choice.

Because these sessions are deeply personal, I usually begin with a brief introductory video call. It’s an opportunity for us to meet, ask questions, and see whether sharing this kind of experience feels right for both of us.