What is sexological bodywork?

Sexological bodywork is a somatic practice that helps you reconnect with your body, explore pleasure, and release shame. It combines coaching, breathwork, mindful touch, and embodiment exercises—all tailored to what you want to explore. Unlike traditional therapy (which is talk-based) or massage (which is relaxation-focused), sexological bodywork is about learning to feel more in your body, understanding your desires, and reclaiming pleasure as something natural and shame-free.

How is sexological bodywork different from massage or therapy?

Massage is about relaxation and releasing physical tension—it's done to you. Sex therapy is talk-based counseling about sexual issues—it happens in conversation. Sexological bodywork is embodied and experiential. It's about learning through your body—exploring sensation, practicing new ways of relating to pleasure, and releasing shame through somatic practices, not just talking about it.

Is sexological bodywork sexual?

Sessions can include sexual touch and exploration, but only if that's what you want and we've agreed on it together. Many sessions are not explicitly sexual—they might focus on breathwork, sensation mapping, or simply learning to feel safe and present in your body. The focus is always on your experience, your learning, and your pleasure—not mine.

Who do you work with?

I work with people of all genders, sexual orientations, bodies, and abilities. My clients include people exploring their sexuality for the first time, those recovering from shame, trauma, or negative sexual experiences, individuals wanting to learn mindful self-pleasure, couples deepening their intimacy, disabled clients seeking accessible body-positive support, and anyone curious about embodiment and somatic practices.

How much does sexological bodywork cost?

Sexological bodywork: £150 per 3-hour session | £50 per additional hour. Two-way touch sessions: £150 per 3-hour session | £50 per additional hour. Self-pleasure coaching: £100 per 2-hour session | £50 per additional hour. I have a 24-hour cancellation policy.

Where do sessions take place?

I see clients at my dedicated flat in central London, in Marylebone. The nearest station is Bond Street; Oxford Circus and Baker Street are also within walking distance. I'm also happy to consider alternative arrangements, including seeing clients in their own homes.

Is this right for me?

If you're curious about reconnecting with your body, exploring pleasure without shame, or learning something new about yourself, then yes—this might be for you. You don't need to have everything figured out. You don't need to be good at anything. You just need to be willing to explore, ask questions, and see what feels true for you.

Working together

We begin by talking

Conversation is an important beginning, because it helps us understand what has brought you here and what you would like to explore.

From there, we decide together how we might proceed. Some sessions remain mostly conversational. Others become more experiential. We might use touch, movement, role play, guided exercises, erotic exploration, or simply pay attention to what is happening in your body.

I don’t work from a script. I don’t ask you to choose from a menu of techniques. Instead, we create each session together, responding to what feels meaningful in the moment.

From talking to experiencing

Most of us spend much of our lives explaining ourselves—to ourselves and to others. We tell stories about who we are, why we react the way we do, and what we believe is possible.

Those stories are (very) important. But they are not the same as experience. In our work together, I want the focus to be on practical experience.

Rather than talking about intimacy, we can experience being intimate. Rather than discussing boundaries, we can practise setting them. Rather than imagining different possibilities, we can experiment with them and see what happens. Because understanding alone is enough — some things can only be learned through experience.

My intention is to create a space where you can step, even briefly, outside familiar ways of thinking and relating, experiment with different possibilities, and discover what else might become possible.

What we might explore

Every session is different because every person is different.

You might come because you want to practise saying no, or asking for what you want. You might want to experience what it feels like to receive without feeling the need to give something back, or to give without feeling responsible for the other person’s response. You might want to express desire more freely, experiment with different ways of relating, or simply discover what happens when you allow yourself to slow down and stay present.

Depending on what we’re exploring together, we might work with conversation, touch, body awareness, movement, breath, massage, role play, self-pleasure, mindfulness, or simply with whatever emerges between us.

There is no fixed sequence to follow, and no single way a session is supposed to unfold. We’ll create our experience together.

Working together in different ways

We are all different.

Some people come because they’d like to understand themselves better. Others want to explore particular sensations, practices or recurring patterns in their relationships or sexuality. Some simply want to experience something unfamiliar in a safe, intentional way.

For this reason, I don’t begin by choosing a particular modality. I begin by understanding what brings you here, and then we decide together what kind of work best supports your intention.

Sexological bodywork

Many sessions take place within the professional framework of sexological bodywork.

Sexological bodywork is an educational and experiential approach to sexuality, intimacy and embodiment. Rather than only talking about change, we explore it directly through experience. Depending on your intentions, this may include movement, breath, body awareness, massage, touch, nudity, arousal, masturbation and other forms of erotic exploration.

The work is held within a clear professional framework. In particular, touch is one-way (from me to you), and I remain clothed throughout the session. These boundaries are designed to support learning by helping keep the focus on your own experience.

Interactive and relational practices

Some intentions are better supported through approaches that allow for greater interaction between us.

Like sexological bodywork, these sessions remain educational and experiential in nature. Their purpose is still to explore sexuality, intimacy and embodiment through direct experience. The difference lies not in the intention of the work, but in the way we work together.

Depending on what we are exploring, this may include two-way touch, my own nudity, or other forms of embodied interaction. Rather than following a single professional modality, I draw on a range of approaches—including Interactive Erotic Education and other relational practices—to choose what best supports the process we have agreed together.

Whatever form the session takes, it remains grounded in the same principles of consent, communication, embodied awareness, curiosity and mutual respect.

Shared intimacy

There is one important exception.

Sometimes people aren’t looking for an educational or exploratory process at all. They don’t want to learn through intimacy—they simply want to share it.

In those cases, I also offer shared intimacy sessions. Although they are guided by the same values of consent, communication and mutual respect, their intention, structure and practical arrangements are different.

If this is what you’re looking for, you can read more about them here.

Practicalities

Sessions

Sessions usually take place in my private flat in Marylebone, central London. It provides a calm, discreet and welcoming environment where we can spend unhurried time together, free from interruption.

I also offer home visits in London by prior arrangement.

Duration and price

Sessions last approximately 3 hours long. The fee for a three-hour session is £210.

Sessions are intentionally unhurried. Three hours allows time to arrive, settle, explore at a comfortable pace, and integrate the experience without feeling rushed.

The way we value and distribute opportunities for touch, intimacy and pleasure is not politically neutral. I believe this work should be accessible to more people than our society often allows. For that reason, I have intentionally kept my fees lower than they might otherwise be. Still, if money is the main barrier, please get in touch. I can’t always offer a reduced fee, but I never want finances alone to determine whether someone can access this work.

Before we meet

If we’ve never met before, we’ll usually arrange a brief phone or video call beforehand. It’s an opportunity to introduce ourselves, talk about what you’re looking for, ask questions, and make sure we’re both happy to proceed.

Professional boundaries

Every session is built around clear communication, enthusiastic consent and mutual respect. If at any point something doesn’t feel right, we’ll pause, talk about it and decide together how to proceed.

Accessibility

I welcome clients of all abilities. If you have specific accessibility needs, please get in touch so we can discuss how to make sessions accessible and comfortable for you.

Not every experience needs to be educational.

If you’re simply seeking intimacy and connection for its own sake, my shared intimacy sessions have a different purpose, structure, duration, and pricing. You can learn more here.

If you’re unsure which approach feels right for you, we can talk about it before we meet.

Questions?

If you’d like more information about how sessions work, what to expect, or whether this might be right for you, you’ll find more detailed answers in theFAQs.

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